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jsgain   in reply to rubgor1   on

i need some good opinions. i come from a very dysfunctional family.five years ago was the

Actually I.did what you said. The problem is they continue to speak of me nega tively evenafter years go by. If they see I have a good functioning relationship they come between me and that person.
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jsgain   in reply to Anonymous40784   on

i need some good opinions. i come from a very dysfunctional family.five years ago was the

I see your point but my mother told everyone that I threw the tantrum thatnow Ms nasty did. Now n.o one is talking to me.
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i need some good opinions. i come from a very dysfunctional family.five years ago was the

i need some good opinions. i come from a very dysfunctional family.five years ago was the last time i saw my elderdly parents. my parets live with my older brother and his very nasty wife. when she first came to our family no one liked her. my entire family spoke very viciously about her.then she took my parents in to thier home.my mom who pays rent to live there invited me to come visit at christmas in 2007. we spent christmas ever together and had a wonderful time. ate together went last minute shopping and finished our evening together watching christmas movies. my brother and his wife ms nasty went to a party. we had anexcellent time. the next morning while ms nasty was handing out gifts she made snide remarks to me and my son about how she bought him sweaters to improve i dressed him. im a single mom. she also slyly and nastly announced that uncccccle mikkkkkke or gramaaa and so on gave him all these gifts.she then got to me and gave me a gray ugly snowman lamp that you put the candle in to light up.it was a hard christamas to begin with because my fiance dumped me right before the holidays without warning.so her antic really upset me.
my mother invited to take a breather an go into her room to talk.
next thing you know ms nast started to send people in the room to constantly bother our conversation every few minutes. in the mean time my mom and i heard a loud scream. it was ms nasty. my brother came in and said i upset his wife because i didnt watch her open her gifts. my mom said oh i forgot that we started a new tradition of gift opening. i had no clue. well when ms nasty came in the room she changed her story and said i made her children run upstairs in tears.
my 18 year old niece informed me that was a lie. because ms nasty is the one who upset her children when she screamed. ms nasty dried to blame it on me.
and kicked me out of the house.
my mother said i should take the blame of the incident to make it alright . what should i do.
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jsgain   in reply to Anonymous40784   on

i need some advice on how to handle a really difficult situation. two years ago my 20 year

thanks
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jsgain   in reply to bookworm2011   on

i need some advice on how to handle a really difficult situation. two years ago my 20 year

thanks for answering as well.im trying to believe wi

work in this situation.
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jsgain   in reply to Anonymous40784   on

i need some advice on how to handle a really difficult situation. two years ago my 20 year

Thanks for the advice. if you believe in it pray for me.
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i need some advice on how to handle a really difficult situation. two years ago my 20 year

i need some advice on how to handle a really difficult situation. two years ago my 20 year old son comitted battery on me. i took him to dinner for his 20th birthday. we got on the subject of his new girlfriend who was making demands or else kinda thing or we wont be official. my son wanted me to make concrete plans for a hotel stay including his girlfriend. all i said was wait and see what happens. he freaked out on me. when we got out to the parking lot he grabbed the keys and threatened to hit me.then he kept locking me in and out of the car with the power buttons. when i got agin to look for help he dissappeared.i looked all over couldnt find him. to explain we eating dinner at a nearby hotel. so since we lived nearby i went and head and went home. i was talking to to my sister in law on the phone while i was setting the water in the tub.i heard a lot of rukus and he had just walked through the door. he punced in two doors. then he took the phone out of my hand so i couldnt call for help. then he told me he was going to set me straight. he threw me on the couch and sat on my chest. i couldnt breathe and he called me a hypochondriac. he finally let me go off the couch and then threatened to lock on the porch. he said knew the neighbors werent home so it would be awhile to get help. he threw up against the wall then he wouldnt let me out of the apartment. he told me to shut the f up and then told me he could but ran for the knife drawer.but he was fooled because i put the knives else where because of an earlier incident.
i called the police out of shear fear. i thought he was going to kill me.
he ran off a few days later he got arrested .my intent wasnt for him to be arrested it was to protect me.
if anyone can help with advice or knows legally what i can do or tell me how i might handle this tough situation i would appreciate it.
please no nastiness or sarcasm im already on the verge of a breakdown as it is.
my family took his side. they accused me of lying about him and spread rumors all the family telling them not to talk to me.
in the mean time my son got out of jail and was put on probation. he and his girlfriend were living at her moms house and they kicked my son out for being direspectful. my son and his girlfriend in the mean time had a baby boy born on july 22. a few weeks before my son asked to meet with me. now keep in mind he lied about me to my entire family and didnt speak to me for 2 years.
we met at a resturant and at first he was very cold towards then started in on my good fortune of having a full time job and a nice apartment, then he asks me to help him buy a car. no apolgies nothing. he claimed that he needed the car to help him with the baby and take him to the store and stuff. i was willing to help.
i asked to help me put out fliers to expand my avon bussiness. his girl informed me he didnt like the idea and ignored me. i finally after 2 weeks of being ignored
told him i felt like he only contacted me for the car he wanted which is being sold in his girlfriends old neighborhood. he then told me i cant see the baby.
i was informed i may have legal rights to see the baby anyway.
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jsgain   in reply to jsgain   on

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my son and i are not speaking. he just made me a granmother. iam trying to reach out him to reconcile. anyone out there have suggestions that may help me ? if nothing else please pray for me.
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iam a single mom of one grown son.
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